I was not aware that women like this existed in my state. I am so thrilled that I am considering driving an hour and a half JUST so that she can be my vagina doctor. It would be an honor to receive a pap smear from this lady
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Finally, let’s talk about the women who are too much. Tell me about women who are too sexy, show too much, talk too much, do too much. These are the women that cross that line and go into the area that mainstream society starts to frown upon. Talk to me here about girls and women who are viewed to be the “just right” amount of sexiness. How do they dress? How do they act? How do they talk? What risks do they take? These are the females mainstream society holds up as the ideal. Talk to me about prudes – what they are to you, to other people, anything at all about prudes. This is the group considered not sexual enough for mainstream approval. All this recent talk of feminism, sexiness, and societal expectations has spurred something within me. I want to create a list of three categories prude, sexy, whore. In each, I want to have behaviors that typify each definition. Then, I want to somehow graphically show how each of these is a social construct of the time and/or social group. WHO’s IN??????
via www.sheknows.com If you and a guy (or girl) are having sex, haven’t you already proven that they are at least mildly attractive. And doing it in the dark or while wearing an old t-shirt? Who the hell does that? Yesterday on Skepchick, Rebecca Watson brought up the horrible misogynistic crap directed at a female journalist who interviewed Paul Offit. It involved talk of rape, whoredom, and the general stuff that gets thrown at women. It also featured a gross depiction of pro-vaccination people eating dead babies. This is disgusting. Very much so. However, skeptics need to clean their own house of the same type of behavior. In less than one hour and five searches, I was able to pull up equally disturbing imagery and comments directed at Jenny McCarthy. I have also heard skeptics refer to Jenny and Oprah as evil on more than one occasion, and refer to Oprah as fat and insinuate she is unfuckable. Continue reading Sluts are Stupid!!!
:) Oh you Brits!!
This piece is also cross posted on aagblog and was a collaboration between the two of us. She claim that I did all the work, but I think that is just her way of saying I am a bigger slut. :) Not long ago my pal Heidi Read on and make sure to answer the question we pose in the comments. –aag —— When I was a girl, I couldn’t wait to grow up and be promiscuous. I planned my first sexual encounter with the same attention to I had not planned on falling in love with the person I had my first After I followed the above boyfriend to College, which rarely if While dating this guy, I became friends with my astronomy teachers This relationship lasted awhile, and when he and I broke up, I made I sucked at promiscuity. I tried repeatedly to be a free spirit, put I know my experience is unusual, because I was able to watch friends As I was talking one night with my friend (squee – love to call her my friend) aag of aagblog.com, we discussed this and what the word "promiscuous" means. We decided that we need TWO words for that concept. Listen in?
If it were not already tied to open relationships/marriages, "open" Promiscuity and casual sex are not bad things. They can both be very
So now we pose the question to you, our readers. We need two Thoughts? Suggestions? Leave 'em in the comments below and head over to aag's to say howdy too. I recently attended The Amazing Meeting in Las Vegas. It is the world's largest gathering of skeptics, with about 1,007 in attendance this year. It was a wonderful event, and though I was there only for 52 hours, I met many lovely people and had "much excitement". Less than lovely was the fact that the majority of the speakers were male, and that two of them said things that were stupid, if not downright offensive. Bill Prady, creator of the Big Bang Theory sitcom, apparently made a joke implying that it was not worth it to try to teach "beautiful women" the difference between astrology and astronomy. Even more upsetting was the fact that Brian Dunning of Skeptoid thought it hilarious to replace the photo of a Russian cosmonaut in his presentation with a more attractive woman because the Russian was too ugly. Right. After TAM, a few blog posts were made about the incidents, as well as the a dress of the women attendees at TAM. One blogger, Barbara Dreshcer of ICBSEVERYWHERE, commented that one of the female attendees was clearly inappropriately dressed for the event in fishnets, short shorts, and spike heels. This led to a post on Skepchick, where Carrie discussed that post AND the incidents at TAM. Barbara Dreshcer has since apologized for that remark and I believe her sincerity. The comments on the Skepchick page, however, are very interesting. It appears that many people are of the belief that when presenting yourself, if you include your sexuality in the presentation, you should not be surprised when that is the only aspect that people respond too. Honestly, THAT would surprise me. I often dress in a cleavage displaying manner, for two reasons: 1) I have a great rack and 2) I look like an apple on sticks if I do not define my bustline. I do not mind when men (AND WOMEN!) look at my cleavage; like great art I WANT it to be admired. However, like great art, there is also a look but don't touch policy. I sometimes wonder if THAT is not the reason for the hostility from men regarding provacative dress. It seems to anger the penis driven part of the brain that BOOBS ARE DISPLAYED AND IN TOUCHING VICINITY, but they are not allowed to touch them. Like a dirty trick that makes the reptilian brain very mad. I can not speak for other women, but when I dress in a sexy manner I am fully aware of the effect it has on people. I like it, I am somewhat exhibitionistic, and enjoy showing off my attributes. Why is that a personality flaw? Lord knows many of the male presenters at TAM were swinging their "fame" around for all the ladies to admire, but THAT appears to be completely acceptable! Are we supposed to hide our sexuality and display it only for those we are going to have sex with? Also, why can't you look at my boobs AND listen to me talk? I enjoy sending and receiving sexual energy from other people, even those I am not intimate with. If this bothers you, just move along. But don't dare think that you are smarter than me because cleavage distracts you. Because if you think my tits are big, you should see my brain :) At what point is my cleavage offensive and distracting???? Picture A – What A Nice Wholesome Skeptic – She Must Be Smart! Picture B – How did THIS girl get into TAM? Maybe she is lost! I will go tell her that she has pretty eyes! Picture C – WHORE!!! EVIL SLUT!! TEMPTRESS TRYING TO DISTRACT US FROM THE IMPORTANT WORK OF HUNTING GHOSTS AND PERFORMING MAGIC!!!!!!!! BURN HER!!!!!!!!!! Just in case you could not tell, my IQ stayed the same the ENTIRE time, no matter how much cleavage was showing. How much did yours change while looking at them? *142 and 38K, FYI So my post on being pro-sex was chosen to be part of Sugasm 167. This makes me obscenely happy. Below are the other posts chosen. All are very, very nice. Most are obviously NSFW, especially the erotica and photography, but if you read this blog, chances are you are also NSFW. Back to work Pervy McPerverson!! This Week’s Picks HNT: Spanked A Thousand Kisses Mr. Sugasm Himself Sugasm Editor Editor’s Choice Spending a week in Greenwich Village in New York City was one of the most incredible experiences of my life. I was on Christopher Street, the literal birthplace of the gay rights movement. While some of you may wonder why this so deeply touched a married heterosexual mother of two, others of you understand the importance of this to me with no question. Sexuality is one of the cornerstones of my life. Many people have commented to me that I am sexually inappropriate, as if they are the first person to tell me this. It is not something you need to tell me. I am fully aware that I tend to be obsessed with sex, and that I can make even the most innocuous statement into a horribly dirty joke. I have poor boundaries about sex. I want to know about your sex life, not to judge or belittle, but to salivate and celebrate. Also, I am just plain nosy. So to all of those people who think that I need to “grow up” and “shut up” here is my charge to you. Instead of telling me that I am sexually inappropriate, do as some of my other friends have done – tell me it makes you uncomfortable. Own your feelings. Think about what it is that I am saying that makes you nervous, and if you still don’t want to hear things from me, GROW UP and tell me. Do not pathologize my interest in sex, when to me your disinterest is just as odd. Many people consider sexuality a private, intimate topic to be shared only within the bounds of marriage. Or, they consider sex a compartmentalized piece of their life, something that is great and all, but nothing to get so worked up about. I am not either of those people. Without sharing too much of stories that are not mine, I grew up knowing the realities of sexual abuse. Although I was never the victim, I can’t remember a time in my life when I was not aware of the dark side of sexuality. Rape and sexual abuse are powerful, destructive forces, and can destroy even the strongest person. It can become not just an assault on the body, but an assault on the mind as well (I would say soul, but we all know I don’t believe in souls :) I have always been the person that my friends came to to discuss sex with, including their sexual assaults. I have had more people disclose abuse to me than I can count, and once an interviewer even disclosed to me as I was interviewing for a job with her. She had never told anyone and was deeply ashamed. In 1995, I began my career at a domestic violence/rape crisis center. For the past fourteen years, I have been exposed daily to the worst stories imaginable. Stories that I will not repeat, but can’t forget. Stories that have made me cry at the vulnerability of children, and seethe at the power of men in our society. I have seen women abused within an inch of their life choose to go back to their husband and abandon the child he also assaulted. I have seen boys who were abused as children grow up to become the very monster they feared. I have seen women who were sexually abused in childhood be aghast and surprised when the same abuser hurts their own children. I may not believe in god, but I have certainly seen the devil. And how do you defeat the devil? With joy, love, and pleasure. In my line of work, it is pretty easy to become jaded and bitter, and to blame sex, society, and/or men. I have chosen instead to fight from a position of love for humanity by seeking out the joy in sexuality. For every bit as destructive as sexual assault can be, sexual fulfillment can be healing. I will NOT allow the abusers, naysayers, and prudes of the world to deny that power to me or anyone else. In fact, I try at every opportunity to flirt with, celebrate, and encourage the multitude of good, decent, and loving men and women as a direct affront to the pain and suffering my clients and family members have suffered over the years. I was raised to believe that my body belonged to me, that my sexuality was mine to own, and that sexuality was about pleasure, pure and simple. Sex was not a bargaining chip to get something from others, nor was it a chore that must be endured to receive love. My sexual power was not to be given to someone to else, but rather something to be shared. I was taught to never do anything sexually that I was uncomfortable with, and I never have. I was also taught that with sexuality comes personal responsibility, not only in terms of taking care of my physical and emotional health, but also my experiences. Orgasms were my right as a sexual partner, and a woman, and not a nice “extra” on occasion. If people are allowed to be obsessed with science, movies, religion, sports, literature, Live Action Role Playing, midgets, ghosts, and lake monsters, why is it such a problem that I choose to focus on one of the most life affirming activities on the planet? There is nothing that screams “fuck you” to the pain and the hurt in the world than screaming “fuck me” to the person in your bed. I have always loved the quote “The solution to bad art is not censorship, its better art.” Well for me, the solution to bad sex and the pain it brings is not abstinence, its better sex. And better sex will only come about when we admit, deal with, and respect the power that sexuality has in our lives. Oh, and I am still really nosy. So last night in the manic throes of trolling for sex chat on the internet (oh how I wish I was joking) I got on Craigslist for fun. It really is a fun place to go to feel better about yourself. I found some PRIZE people looking for love, right here in my area. So here are Spartanburg’s finest, what their ad says, and what it really means. Thanks to all my friends who helped with this, especially Kimberly and Eileen. Ad#1 I’m looking for a classy woman to go out with and just have a good time so if you interested please email me back. Because nothing says class like a car parked in your yard. Ad#2 The Unicorn Hunters Are you looking for something different, something fun yet stable? Tell you what would be nice to find someone who is looking for a relationship with a couple/family. We are both married I am 31 nice body, beautiful long dirty blond hair with blue eyes and 5′4″. I am constantly told I am either HOT, GORGEIOUS, BEAUTIFUL, you name it. My husband is very attractive dark hair, dark eyes, and medium to average build 5′8″. We have 3 little girls, 6.7 and 8. What are we looking for? A live in Nanny with benefits someone who enjoys going to the beach for a long weekend to stay at our family beach house with us. Someone to enjoy the days with, along with this and so much more would be the responsibility to help with the kids, so you must love kids. Come screw me and my husband, and then take care of our children. Who would not be looking for that? Ad#3 To Catch A Predator Edition Looking for a cute girl who is getting ready to graduate high school, but doesn’t know what is next. I can be your safe haven and your bridge to the nest level. I know this sounds cheesy, but I am serious, and can help you in a variety of ways. I am clean cut and professional, yet artistic and real, and am not looking for anybody who wants my credit card number for the next conversation. I look forward to hearing from ya’ll…. I will screw you until you are not hot and I have used up your youth and beauty. And don’t be one of those whores like the other girls. Ad #4: What the Hell is Going On in Spartanburg? What I DONT want is someone who says, F it lets drink and watch pornos and light up snort stuff and whatever else comes to mind. No condoms? No problem, I dont mind sharing my multiple std’s that I have worked hard for over the years to get with you. HELL NO AND STAY THE FIZZUCK UP OUT OF MY SIGHT! That type of BS can keep on living off BHO’s free mone Ad#5 Looking for lady to share nudist family friendly activities and events. What kind of nudist activities are family friendly for someone you just met on Craigslist? Ad#5 I like older women. Are there any women on here that like young men. I like to have fun doing whatever. I am pretty laid back. I like laying in hammocks and just flirting. I am a lumberjack around the area and am currently going to college for Philosophy Where the hell is this lumberjack cutting down trees in Upstate South Carolina? Ad#5 I am a 25 year old white male on here looking for a female that is of any other race or nationality other than white(caucasian). I am really into Hispanic or Asian women. I am 5′5 200lbs, brown hair and eyes. I don’t do drugs or smoke, but I do drink on occasion. I am disease free, have zero kids, & have never been married. I enjoy cooking & eating all types of food. I have a fetish for asian women and expect you too cook me food while being as subservient as I think Asian women are. Ad#6 Any ladies interested in meeting a new man in their life? Hit me up on my yahoo messenger latinspice00 anything with spice in it is code word for it burns when I pee Ad#7 24 yr old seeks older women milf Please pay my rent, my mother has kicked me out. Ad#8 SINGLE BLACK FEMALES WANT TO TRAVEL AND HAVE ALL EXPENSES PAID??? (GREENVILLE) single white male with my own business is seeking single black female for companionship to accompany me while I travel…I will pay all your expenses and provide for you all that you may need…You must be over 21,,single ,, be slim or average body type..and free to travel..If you are having a tough time getting your bills paid . . . black women of Greenville, stay the hell away from this man!!!! Ad#9 ANY LADIES INTO NASCAR? ANYONE WANT TO WATCH RACE TONITE? HAVE A COUPLE OF STEAKS & LITTLE FUN!!!! ALSO COCKTAILS. Do people really go watch NASCAR, eat steaks, and drink cocktails with people they just met?
Ad#10 I’m looking for a female in the 18-28 range who is also a nerd/geek type, leaning towards video/card games. With me being average, I expect you to be average in looks and weight as well. You can be no more or less ugly than me.
Ad#11 I am looking for a woman who would love to have exotic, kinky, and wild sex outside their relationship. You must be disease free. Also willing to be very discreet about everything.. I dont want to know anything about your personal life and you dont ask mine..So ladies if your looking for a little fun outside your marriage im your man Lying POS seeks same.
Ad#12 Honesty at last: I am a nice guy when i must be, but in all honesty i can be a bit of a dick, i know what i want, i have my goals and nothing is going to come in the way of those. OK, now i’m not a huge guy, not small either, I can offer you an average sized penis and a promise of a dickish attitude.
Ad#13 goodlooking gentleman, classy and honest. The total package. Im fun and creative. I know how to show a lady a great time. I also have an adventurous, “bad boy”side and cant be tamed but you will enjoy the ride. Im looking for a mature lady, not necessarily older, but emotionally sound. She should be reasonably goodlooking and height/weight propor You like this. height/weight propor? So, like, round? Completely sphereical? Not sure a mature lady would fall for this “bad boy’s” bullshit. I’m planning to cheat on my wife. I’m going to pick a dull woman with low self-esteeem so I can get away with it.
Douche. Ew. And last but by far my favorite Ad#14 HEY why cant i just find a good girl? . . . Hey im Thomas, why cant i just find a descent girl. Everytime i think i found one she turns out to be sycho. . . l. I’m 5′10” i have black hair with blonde highlights. . . .also have my left eye brow and tongue pierced with for tattoos. I have 2 little boys who live with their mom.
Let’s see Thomas, why can’t you find a good girl: 1. your spell decent with descent, they are not the same. A descent girl would slowly drag you into hell. 2. You spell psycho with sycho 3. You are 24 and have two little boys who live with their mom 4. You have four, not FOR tattoos. Its a number goddammit, how do you fuck up a number 5. I have 2 little boys who live with their mom.
Black hair with blond highlights? Tongue piercing? Methinks someone is not looking for a woman after all. Why? For God’s sake, can’t this man find a good woman? Why are random men writing you with bad grammar and hitting on you? Sounds kinda creepy. LMAO…
Think Backstreet Boys, FROM 1999!!! Yeah Heidi, I think you nailed it!! The reasons the dude isn’t getting laid, I mean…….goood lord!!!!!!!! what are they doing in Sparkle City these days!!! I get that you may be kinky….but what is up with the spelling?? This dude is obviously 2 beers short of a six pack. Butt I is shure he wil find sumone four him if he loks herd enuf.
Many people, including my own personal Voldemort, believe that sex is what has driven the internet to, ah, explode. I have no doubt about this, because people are constantly flirting on the internet, including me. Hell, on my favorite website ever, Pharyngula, people were tapping virtual ass left and right yesterday. Even my new profile pic has major cleavage, and I wanted it that way. I enjoy knowing that someone thousands, or dozens, of feet away looks at my rack and says "Nice rack!!" But I have to say, I have gotten my first completely random email from a dude hitting on me, from India no less, and it concerns me. It makes me feel scared and unsafe, and afraid for our world. Oh, no, not because he is hitting on me online – that is perfectly fine. But his spelling and grammar are atrocious. I am not sure how civilization is going to continue when this is what gets sent my way from Facebook: Him: u slit look sexy i like u i like those 2 big thing u hav
Me: Dude you are young and 5,000 miles away. Again, though, thank you for your shakespearean compliments. The bard weeps.
Him: i guesss i hav rites 2 dream ur awesome n sexy keep in touch like u n i;m only 3 year;s younger than u
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